Add support for watcher noc sanitization in noc_nonblocking_api.h

[tt-dma]

Had to do a bit of cleanup/rearranging in the headers to get around some circular dependencies + multiple definitions, let me know if anything looks off.

Passing CI: https://github.com/tenstorrent/tt-metal/actions/runs/9024330478

[tt-dma]

One bugfix, new CI here: https://github.com/tenstorrent/tt-metal/actions/runs/9024995737

[pgkeller]

The noc checking was done at the dataflow layer because these noc layer are routines that may be shared w/ buda at some point. Please ping Milos on his plans before pushing this down to that layer. Otherwise, I'm ok w/ this.

[tt-dma]

Conclusion per Milos is to leave Metal-specific things out of noc_nonblocking_api.h, so remove that in this PR. New passing CI: https://github.com/tenstorrent/tt-metal/actions/runs/9037973534

I've added in the missing DEBUG_SANITIZE_* calls in front of all relevant noc_nonblocking_api.h calls, we'll need to be careful about these in the future - left a comment in that file mentioning this as well.

[pgkeller]

be sure to squash these commits so we don't have the changes in noc_* file histories