BUG: Fix gh-15888 for HiGHs OOM crashes

[HaoZeke]

More of a dodge than a fix, but will essentially work with exceptions now.

Reference issue

Closes #15888.

What does this implement/fix?

This is an extension to the bindings for the exception handling introduced in highs here: scipy/HiGHS#61

The pybind11 bindings of highspy also support handling C++ exceptions so even after integrating directly with highspy this should not be an issue.

Additional information

N/A. I intend to also have an upstream PR on exceptions so the fork changes are minimized.

In [1]: from scipy.optimize import linprog
   ...: import numpy as np
   ...: np.random.seed(0)
   ...: n_ctr = 500000
   ...: n_var = 500
   ...: c_ = np.ones(n_var)
   ...: A_ub = np.random.random((n_ctr, n_var))
   ...: b_ub = np.zeros((n_ctr, ))
   ...: 
   ...: res = linprog(c_, A_ub=A_ub, b_ub=b_ub, method='highs-ds', bounds=(0, None), options={
   ...: 'disp': True, 'presolve': True})
   ...: 
   ...: print('End')
   ...: 
Running HiGHS 1.2.0 [date: 2021-07-09, git hash: n/a]
Copyright (c) 2022 ERGO-Code under MIT licence terms
Presolving model
Memory allocation failed while processing fixedColAtLower: Failed to resize the vector. Requested new size: -2142950640. Size to add is 24.. Current size: 2152016632.
The problem is too large to be solved. Details: The problem cannot be pre-solved, either lower the size or try without presolve
End

In [2]: 

To test this locally one has to update the submodule to point to scipy/HiGHS#61.

Draft until scipy/HiGHS#61 is completed and until a custom exception is raised and caught (instead of catching Exception in the cython binding).

Note: The build will be broken until the HiGHS PR is merged :)

[rgommers]

Thanks @HaoZeke. I had a quick look at both PRs, that seems like a concise and pragmatic solution for now.

Given that this PR is broken until the other PR is merge, let me mark it as draft for the time being.

[HaoZeke]

After ERGO-Code/HiGHS#1467 goes in and scipy/HiGHS#63 is updated for #19255, this will not be required (highspy catches and reports C++ exceptions nicely anyway).