Add hook for altering surefire JVM argLine

[dnskr]

The change is needed to add -Djdk.attach.allowAttachSelf=true argument to maven-surefire-plugin in prestodb/airlift project to be able to build jmx module on Java 11.
See https://github.com/airlift/airlift/pull/840/files for the change needs to be done in prestodb/airlift.

Cherry-pick of airlift@f5f054e
Co-authored-by: Piotr Findeisen piotr.findeisen@gmail.com

Successful build

dnskr@DESKTOP-C71KJJ0 MINGW64 ~/IdeaProjects/airbase (additional-surefire-args)
$ export JAVA_HOME='C:\Users\dnskr\.jdks\temurin-1.8.0_382' && mvn verify -DskipTests
[INFO] Scanning for projects...
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[INFO] Reactor Build Order:
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[INFO] airbase-root                                                       [pom]
[INFO] airbase-policy                                                     [jar]
[INFO] airbase                                                            [pom]
...
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[INFO] Reactor Summary for airbase-root 104-SNAPSHOT:
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[INFO] airbase-root ....................................... SUCCESS [  0.004 s]
[INFO] airbase-policy ..................................... SUCCESS [  0.821 s]
[INFO] airbase ............................................ SUCCESS [  3.560 s]
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[INFO] BUILD SUCCESS
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[INFO] Total time:  4.665 s
[INFO] Finished at: 2024-04-26T00:22:31+02:00
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[tdcmeehan]

Looks reasonable to me