feat(crd) add a CRD-checking system

[rainest]

What this PR does / why we need it:

Add a CRD version index and failure condition when the installed CRDs are below the requested level. On failure, chart actions will print a message with the update command.

One of the options from #890

Special notes for your reviewer:

The CRD annotation this check relies on does not exist yet. We can add it with additional configuration in KIC's config/crd/kustomization.yaml:

commonAnnotations:
  konghq.com/kic-crd-release: 2.9.0

Draft pending additional testing and possibly some mechanism for less manual version maintenance.

Checklist

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• PR is based off the current tip of the main branch.
• Changes are documented under the "Unreleased" header in CHANGELOG.md
• New or modified sections of values.yaml are documented in the README.md
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