chore(rocksdb): bump deps for rocksdb v8.10.0 (backport #1903)

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Description

Bumps cometbft-db dependency. Update bumps grocksdb wrapper for use with rocksdb v8.10.0.

Checklist

• Changelog has been updated as necessary.

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This is an automatic backport of pull request #1903 done by [Mergify](https://mergify.com).

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Changes to be committed:
	modified:   go.mod

Unmerged paths:
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	both modified:   CHANGELOG.md
	both modified:   go.sum

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