Adds lazyAnimation property to AnimatedList and AnimatedGrid.

[chinmoy12c]

This PR adds lazyAnimation property to AnimatedList and AnimatedGrid to optionally start animation of item when the item is first rendered instead of starting the animation when its first inserted to the list.

Fixes: #148379

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