added use_distance option for truckcost

[iddqd2d]

Issue

Add use_distance option for truckcost #4513

Tasklist

• Add tests
• Add #fixes with the issue number that this PR addresses
• Update the docs with any new request parameters or changes to behavior described
• Update the changelog
• If you made changes to the lua files, update the taginfo too.

Requirements / Relations

[nilsnolde]

can you add a gurka test proving and protecting the functionality? (and make the builds pass)

this should be relevant for all costing models actually and should live in dynamiccost. but that was more an oversight in the initial design, it's not your or this PR's problem, more of a clenaup item.