Added a flag to allow skipping the first projection in small ResNets

[laxmareddyp]

Description

This should fix #10583
In this issue, I described how the small ResNets implemented here have an extra convolution (for projection), that is neither present in the original paper or in PyTorch.
This PR allows to get rid of this extra convolution with a keyword argument that defaults to the previous behaviour so that this remains a non-breaking change.

This PR created from #10584 as it is having problem to merge in codebase with manual copybara sync.

Type of change

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Note:I didn't wait for a discussion because this seemed like a relatively small and simple change,
so it's not bothering for me to have written it even if rejected in the end.

• New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)

Tests

I added tests to check the parameter count.
I also offline checked the number of non-trainable parameters to checked that it matched against PyTorch's one.

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