fixes #198 negative send/receive deadlines do not work

[gdamore]

This actually affected pretty much all the protocols and both send
and receive deadlines. While here we've also made sure that
a non-blocking check will not fail if a message can immediately
be sent or received.

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Merging #216 into master will decrease coverage by 0.38%.
The diff coverage is 98.30%.

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##            master     #216      +/-   ##
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- Coverage   100.00%   99.61%   -0.39%     
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  Files           46       43       -3     
  Lines         6584     4978    -1606     
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- Hits          6584     4959    -1625     
- Misses           0       15      +15     
- Partials         0        4       +4     

Flag	Coverage Δ
#unittests	99.61% <98.30%> (-0.39%)	⬇️

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Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
protocol/xbus/xbus.go	98.78% <85.71%> (-1.22%)	⬇️
protocol/xreq/xreq.go	98.05% <91.66%> (-1.95%)	⬇️
protocol/rep/rep.go	100.00% <100.00%> (ø)
protocol/req/req.go	100.00% <100.00%> (ø)
protocol/respondent/respondent.go	98.89% <100.00%> (-1.11%)	⬇️
protocol/sub/sub.go	99.47% <100.00%> (-0.53%)	⬇️
protocol/surveyor/surveyor.go	99.15% <100.00%> (-0.85%)	⬇️
protocol/xpair/xpair.go	100.00% <100.00%> (ø)
protocol/xpull/xpull.go	100.00% <100.00%> (ø)
protocol/xpush/xpush.go	100.00% <100.00%> (ø)
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