metrics(indexer): Add metrics around join time for chained processing strategies

[ayirr7]

Currently, we have a total shutdown time for the indexer; however, we don't have a better breakdown to understand which strategies make up this shutdown time and how much.

[codecov]

Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 79.72%. Comparing base (910ff45) to head (723e323).
Report is 1268 commits behind head on master.

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Files	Coverage Δ
.../sentry/sentry_metrics/consumers/indexer/common.py	95.87% <100.00%> (+0.04%)	⬆️
...entry/sentry_metrics/consumers/indexer/parallel.py	81.72% <100.00%> (+0.60%)	⬆️

... and 19 files with indirect coverage changes

[getsantry]

This pull request has gone three weeks without activity. In another week, I will close it.

But! If you comment or otherwise update it, I will reset the clock, and if you add the label WIP, I will leave it alone unless WIP is removed ... forever!

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