optimize: Splitting dependencies for common, client, and server

[wangliang181230]

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Ⅰ. Describe what this PR did

1.1) Change log:

1. optimize: Splitting dependencies for common, client, and server, and simplify the dependency of the modules server, console, and test-mock-server
   优化：拆分通用、客户端、服务端的依赖，并简化server、console、mock-server的依赖配置。
2. 调整依赖关系，通过parent的方式引用 dependencies* 中定义的依赖。
3. bugfix: 修复一个测试用例在macos环境中执行失败的问题；
4. 解决部分希望固定版本号的依赖但在server相关模块下，却被spring-boot-dependencies:2.7.18中的引入的版本号给覆盖了的问题。
5. upgrade github actions: actions/checkout@v4.1.1、actions/setup-java@v4.1.0, the warnning from actions page:
   
6. 优化部分单元测试，提升成功率。
7. 添加一些日志信息。

1.2) See the logs of the workflows: test.yml, test-druid.yml

https://github.com/wangliang181230/seata/actions?query=branch%3Atest-dependency-structure

1.3) Design:

1. common modules:
   • common
   • core
   • compressor/*
   • config/*
   • discovery/*
   • serializer/*
   • seata-spring-autoconfigure-core
2. client modules:
   • integration-tx-api
   • integration/*
   • rm-datasource
   • rm
   • rocketmq
   • saga
   • seata-plugin/*
   • seata-spring-autoconfigure-client
   • seata-spring-boot-starter
   • sqlparser
   • tcc
   • tm
   • test
   • all
3. server modules:
   • console
   • server
   • test-mock-server
   • distribution
   • ext/apm-seata-skywalking-plugin
   • metrics/*
   • seata-spring-autoconfigure-server

Ⅱ. Does this pull request fix one issue?

Ⅲ. Why don't you add test cases (unit test/integration test)?

Ⅳ. Describe how to verify it

Ⅴ. Special notes for reviews

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 54.54545% with 10 lines in your changes are missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 50.36%. Comparing base (d318409) to head (8261052).

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.../org/apache/seata/config/ConfigurationFactory.java	58.75% <0.00%> (-1.25%)	⬇️
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...plugin/NettyRemotingClientSendSyncInterceptor.java	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)
...ng/plugin/RemotingProcessorProcessInterceptor.java	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)
...che/seata/core/rpc/netty/NettyServerBootstrap.java	48.95% <50.00%> (-12.16%)	⬇️

... and 28 files with indirect coverage changes