Add msi packaging for windows

[samamiller]

This seems like an easy todo, however, I don't want to mess with your builds since it could cost you money. Either option below would work depending on preference.

Option 1. Change cmake on win32:

set(CPACK_WIX_UPGRADE_GUID "UUID here") 
set(CPACK_GENERATOR ZIP WIX) 
list(APPEND CPACK_WIX_EXTENSIONS WixUtilExtension) 

// Wixpatch can be used to add binary to path during install
list(APPEND CPACK_WIX_PATCH_FILE ${CMAKE_CURRENT_LIST_DIR}/WixPatch.xml)

Option 2. Change build-tarballs.sh to use gnome msitools:
create msi with wixl

Winget hates installing zip see microsoft/winget-cli#3505 all files are first scanned by defender causing a long wait. Could also be used to resolve microsoft/winget-pkgs#117075