Do not use large extra memory in force.cpp

[dyzheng]

Details

This function https://github.com/deepmodeling/abacus-develop/blob/develop/source/module_hamilt_pw/hamilt_pwdft/forces.cpp#L950
will allocate extra memory of vkb , which should be refactored with the same method of stress.

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