windows build failure trying to rename directory held by different process

[M-Waszkiewicz-Anaconda]

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What happened?

building snowflake-ml-python failing on windows with the message

03/07/24 11:14:36  INFO   Verifying transaction: ...working... done                                                                                                                                                                                          
                   INFO   Executing transaction: ...working... WARNING conda.gateways.disk.delete:unlink_or_rename_to_trash(182): Could not remove or rename C:\b\abs_17t0w_on_6\croot\snowflake-ml-python_1709827295791\_build_env\Library\lib\modules.     
                          Please remove this file manually (you may need to reboot to free file handles)                                                                                                                                                     
03/07/24 11:14:49  INFO   done                                                                                                                                                                                                                               
                   INFO   ERROR conda.core.link:_execute(945): An error occurred while installing package 'defaults::openjdk-11.0.13-h2bbff1b_0'.                                                                                                            
03/07/24 11:14:56  INFO   Rolling back transaction: ...working... done                                                                                                                                                                                       
                   INFO                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      
                   INFO   [Errno 22] Invalid argument: 'C:\\b\\abs_17t0w_on_6\\croot\\snowflake-ml-python_1709827295791\\_build_env\\Library\\lib\\modules'                                                                                                  
                   INFO   ()                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 
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03/07/24 11:14:57  ERROR  Command failed with exit code 1   

It does work if build only for single python version.

After the build for first python version, there is an error:

                   INFO   TEST START: C:\b\abs_17t0w_on_6\upload\win-64\snowflake-ml-python-1.2.2-py310h2bbff1b_3.tar.bz2                                                                                                                                    
                   INFO   Renaming work directory 'C:\b\abs_17t0w_on_6\croot\snowflake-ml-python_1709827295791\work' to 'C:\b\abs_17t0w_on_6\croot\snowflake-ml-python_1709827295791\work_moved_snowflake-ml-python-1.2.2-py310h2bbff1b_3_win-64'            
                   INFO   shutil.move(work)=C:\b\abs_17t0w_on_6\croot\snowflake-ml-python_1709827295791\work, dest=C:\b\abs_17t0w_on_6\croot\snowflake-ml-python_1709827295791\work_moved_snowflake-ml-python-1.2.2-py310h2bbff1b_3_win-64)                  
03/07/24 11:11:13  INFO   WARNING: Failed to rename work directory, check with strace, struss or procmon. Will sleep for 3 seconds and try again!                                                                                                            
03/07/24 11:11:25  INFO   ERROR: Failed to rename work directory despite sleeping and retrying. 

therefore the builds for following python version are failing

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Additional Context

For some extra context - looks like this traces back to:
conda-build shutil_move_retrying:

conda-build/conda_build/utils.py

Line 2130 in 20b75c1

def shutil_move_more_retrying(src, dest, debug_name):

--> line 2137
conda-build rm_rf

conda-build/conda_build/utils.py

Line 1619 in 20b75c1

def rm_rf(path, config=None):

conda rm_rf
https://github.com/conda/conda/blob/1fbef60c03f383bd695c8a071687389f7e513d43/conda/gateways/disk/delete.py#L197
--> line 210
conda unlink_or_rename_to_trash
https://github.com/conda/conda/blob/1fbef60c03f383bd695c8a071687389f7e513d43/conda/gateways/disk/delete.py#L132

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