bug: lots of dependency conflicts

[DerekRoberts]

IMPACT UPDATE: not updating lets packages go stale, increasing the likelihood packages will have vulnerabilities and allow our systems to be compromised.

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Dependency issues are preventing automated PRs from running smoothly. Do not use --force, since this only ignores the issue!

E.g.:

File name: libs/package-lock.json
npm ERR! code ERESOLVE
npm ERR! ERESOLVE could not resolve
npm ERR! 
npm ERR! While resolving: @nestjs/common@9.4.3
npm ERR! Found: reflect-metadata@0.2.1
npm ERR! node_modules/reflect-metadata
npm ERR!   dev reflect-metadata@"^0.2.0" from the root project
npm ERR! 
npm ERR! Could not resolve dependency:
npm ERR! peer reflect-metadata@"^0.1.12" from @nestjs/common@9.4.3
npm ERR! node_modules/@nestjs/common
npm ERR!   @nestjs/common@"^9.4.0" from the root project
npm ERR!   peer @nestjs/common@"^9.0.0" from @nestjs/core@9.4.3
npm ERR!   node_modules/@nestjs/core
npm ERR!     @nestjs/core@"^9.4.0" from the root project
npm ERR!     1 more (@nestjs/testing)
npm ERR!   1 more (@nestjs/testing)
npm ERR! 
npm ERR! Conflicting peer dependency: reflect-metadata@0.1.14
npm ERR! node_modules/reflect-metadata
npm ERR!   peer reflect-metadata@"^0.1.12" from @nestjs/common@9.4.3
npm ERR!   node_modules/@nestjs/common
npm ERR!     @nestjs/common@"^9.4.0" from the root project
npm ERR!     peer @nestjs/common@"^9.0.0" from @nestjs/core@9.4.3
npm ERR!     node_modules/@nestjs/core
npm ERR!       @nestjs/core@"^9.4.0" from the root project
npm ERR!       1 more (@nestjs/testing)
npm ERR!     1 more (@nestjs/testing)
npm ERR! 
npm ERR! Fix the upstream dependency conflict, or retry
npm ERR! this command with --force, or --legacy-peer-deps
npm ERR! to accept an incorrect (and potentially broken) dependency resolution.
npm ERR! 
npm ERR! See /tmp/renovate/cache/others/npm/eresolve-report.txt for a full report.

npm ERR! A complete log of this run can be found in:
npm ERR!     /tmp/renovate/cache/others/npm/_logs/2024-01-02T21_01_57_656Z-debug-0.log