xps 15 resume from sleep crashes machine

[LANopop]

• Are you using the latest driver? yes 5.8.0-33
• Are you using the latest EVDI version? yes 1.14.1-7
• If you are using a DisplayLink device, have you checked 'troubleshooting'
  on DisplayLink's website? yes
• Is this issue related to evdi/kernel? dont know

• Linux distribution and its version - Ubuntu 23.04
• Linux kernel version - 6.2.0-33-generic
• Xorg version (if used) - wayland
• Desktop environment in use - GNOME

my xps 15 (with nvidia graphics card) is connected via 2 usb c cables to 2 usb c hubs which are connected to a aten cs1842 kvm switch which makes 2 monitors available to it
my issues are

• monitors are sometimes running with a lower frequency (30 hz instead of 60hz) when reconnecting via usb c
• monitor arrangement is not automatically detected when connecting to usb c again and i have to configure it again
• (big issue) after sleep i see error messages and force me to power off the machine at least once a day

1915 0000:00:02.0: [drm] *ERROR* Link Training Unsuccessful
usb 2-2.5: PM: dom_run_callback(): usb_dev_resume+0x0/0x20 returns -5
usb 2-2.5: PM: failed to resume async: error -5
ucsi_acpi USBC000:00: failed to re-enable notifications (-110)

• when checking dmesg i can also see the following errors

[Fr Sep 29 09:27:36 2023] gspca_vc032x: reg_r err -32
[Fr Sep 29 09:27:38 2023] Bluetooth: hci0: Malformed MSFT vendor event: 0x02
[Fr Sep 29 09:27:40 2023] ucsi_acpi USBC000:00: unknown error 0
[Fr Sep 29 09:27:40 2023] ucsi_acpi USBC000:00: UCSI_GET_PDOS failed (-5)
[Fr Sep 29 09:27:48 2023] evdi: [E] evdi_painter_connect:857 Edid length too small
[Fr Sep 29 09:27:49 2023] ACPI BIOS Error (bug): Could not resolve symbol [\_TZ.ETMD], AE_NOT_FOUND (20221020/psargs-330)
[Fr Sep 29 09:27:49 2023] ACPI Error: Aborting method \_SB.IETM._OSC due to previous error (AE_NOT_FOUND) (20221020/psparse-529)