Support parameter SQLITE_CONFIG_MEMSTATUS in runtime

[mhanna]

Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.
When enabling the parameter SQLITE_CONFIG_MEMSTATUS at compile time, the performance (read/write) is more than 2x slower

Describe the solution you'd like
I would like to have a way to disable this parameter at runtime as the native code already support it by sqlite3_config(SQLITE_CONFIG_MEMSTATUS,0)

Describe alternatives you've considered
Have different versions, two different jars. one compiled with this option enabled and one while it disabled

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[gotson]

We currently compile with -DSQLITE_DEFAULT_MEMSTATUS=0.

SQLite website mentions for SQLITE_CONFIG_MEMSTATUS:

Memory allocation statistics are enabled by default unless SQLite is compiled with SQLITE_DEFAULT_MEMSTATUS=0 in which case memory allocation statistics are disabled by default.