Docs: Update security usage examples to use SQLAlchemy v2 mapped_column

[JacobCoffee]

should we use SQLA 2.x mapped_column so that we are consistent with the other examples where we use SQLA models?

Originally posted by @Alc-Alc in #3344 (comment)

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