Add a metric that captures average tx message size

[seanchen1991]

Background

It would be nice for Hermes to expose a metric that captures average tx message size within some time frame.

Tasks

• Expose a tx_avg_message_size metric

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[romac]

We probably want a histogram rather than the plain average/median, which would let us derive the latter two.